OBSESSION
His African obsession started back…way back…when my husband was 12 years old, he is now 70. He has dreamed about going to the “Dark Continent” to hunt for most of his life.
Sure, there were other great hunts that he managed in his lifetime. There was Quebec, Wyoming, British Columbia, and numerous hunts in Colorado, but none measured up to the African daydream in his head.
As a teenager, he would accompany his father and uncles to the Milwaukee Journal Sports Show at the Arena, then at the Midwest Convention Center as a young man with his friends, and finally at State Fair Park with me, his wife. Year after year, we would walk down every aisle and collect information on any and every outfitter working in Africa. And every year, the daydream continued as he visualized what a hunt would be like in Africa.
Unfortunately, our budget just could not support a trip of that magnitude. But that did not discourage him in the least. Stories of African safaris overpowered him. He lived the hunts through outfitter’s brochures, magazine articles, and African hunting videos on VHS, DVD, and YouTube. His library of African safari authors include, but is not limited to, Theodore Roosevelt, O’Connor, Cabela, Chapstic, and J. Alain Smith. The list is endless.
And it didn’t matter how many books he read, how many brochures he perused, how my videos he watched. His hunger grew larger than life itself.
By nature, I am a very giving person. I always want people to be happy. There is a certain happiness I find in helping others to achieve their goals. I seem to make it my personal mission in life. So watching him pine over everything Africa and not be able to make it happen for him was excruciating. I so wanted him to have his dream.
Finally, the year came. We attended the Sport Show and, as always, we collected the usual information to yet again yearn over. It was that year that we met Mr. James Hensley with Chivic African Safaris. We had never seen this particular outfitter at the show before; believe me, Dan would know. There was just something so friendly and inviting about his smile and demeanor. Of course, we gathered all their information and brochures as usual while we were engaged in a most intriguing conversation. After about a half hour or so, we decided that we were probably monopolizing his attention while others may have had interest. We excused ourselves and continued on…More brochures and more talks as we moved down the line.
Something just felt right about that day, about Jim, about finances, about Africa. We both felt it. We stopped to have a cold beverage and discuss the matter. “Let’s do it!” I said.
“Do what?” Dan questioned me, secretly hoping we were both talking about the same thing.
His eyes lit up when I said, “Africa!”
“Let’s do it! We aren’t getting any younger and the price is right. We are in an ‘OK’ place with finances, so let’s just do it! It’ll be a trip of a lifetime!”
Dan wasn’t going to wait around for me to change my mind. He was off like a jack rabbit. I gathered all of our things and trailed about 10 steps behind. He headed straight for the Chivic Safari booth, where we had spent a good amount of time talking to Jim and his father, Ron. There was just something about them that made the whole experience seem personable…like a family. Chivic offered the best price for the trip, which made the decision just a little easier. We approached the booth with excitement oozing from every pore. Jim recognized us and nodded in our direction.
“We want to book a trip, a safari,” Dan said with exuberance. He could barely spit the words out of his mouth fast enough.
“Today!” I said.
Jim’s eyes lit up, and suddenly he only had time for us. All the necessary paperwork was filled out and a check for a $500 deposit was written. We talked a bit more and agreed he would contact us to meet on a future date to discuss details and options.
As far as we were concerned, the 2018 Milwaukee Journal Sentinel Sports Show was over for us. We were on our way to cultivating a seed that was planted so long ago in a 12-year-old’s daydream.
DETAILS
The ride home was filled with silence, then chatter, then silence, then chatter as we wondered if we were being too extravagant by treating ourselves to such an exquisite “Trip of a Lifetime”.
A few weeks later, we arranged to meet with Jim at a nearby coffee shop to discuss some of the finer details of the trip. He, of course, is the American ambassador for Christo Joubert and Chivic African Safaris and has made the trip many times himself and with family members. He shared some of his experiences, which heightened our excitement all the more.
We talked for over an hour. By the end of our conversation, we had decided on the dates for our trip. With Jim’s recommendation, we chose the end of May in the following year, 2019. Africa’s seasons are opposite of ours here in Wisconsin, so May would be Fall there. May is also when South Africa cools off from the heat of summer but before the winter rains of the country’s western provinces — the best time to view big game. That would give us a whole year to “anticipate the hunt”, which, I am told, is all part of the experience.
We also were able to select the six plains game animals that we wanted to hunt for our package price. Of the many varieties of animals offered, Dan chose a gemsbok (oryx), kudu, warthog, Impala, springbok, and zebra. Of course, there are no guarantees when hunting and we were not limited to these choices, but at least the PHs (that is Professional Hunters) would know where to begin.
It was an all-inclusive trip, so Jim explained everything from what to pack, when and how to book flights, gun regulations in Africa, and how to get through customs to our nightly menu and what we would like to drink. Did we want American food, African game food, or a mixture? What kind of soda, beer, or wine, and what liquor was preferred? Jim also went over our arrival in Johannesburg. We would stay the first night at the Afton Safari Lodge, which accommodates mostly hunting parties before and after their hunts. Chivic would collect us in the morning. He told us what to expect on our 7-day hunt, what we may encounter in the bush, and how we would become part of the “Chivic Family”. We also discussed the possibility of side trips to Kruger National Park and Victoria Falls in Zimbabwe. Jim assured us that everything would be taken care of in a timely, professional, and friendly manner.
Needless to say, in our minds, it was still all a bit surreal. And with almost a year to prepare, all these things would be discussed at least a few more times, with many questions to follow.
Once again, the ride home sent our minds reeling with chatter and silence. Was this really going to happen???
PREPARATION
Preparing for the hunt is all part of the experience, as I soon found out.
Shortly after our meeting with Jim, I was scheduled for a Medical Mission Trip to Haiti. I was gone for one week.
Upon my return, I found that Dan was already packed for the African trip, which was still more than a year away. He thought I should do the same. Say what? I have always been a last-minute packer and I seem to do OK. To pack a year in advance just seemed crazy to me. What if I needed something that I had already packed?
“Absolutely not!” I exclaimed. “I will pack for the safari next year and I promise to not wait till the night before.”
Dan’s suitcase remained packed for the entire year. Talk about excited! In fact, his suitcase sat for so long that he had forgotten some of the things that he had packed and he began to question whether he had everything on Jim’s list. So, you guessed it; he had to unpack just to assure himself, and then repacked it. This occurred at least two or three times in that year’s time span.
Another part of the preparation was shopping for clothes and “stuff”. Dan has always been a hunter, so his wardrobe was pretty well set with the “proper” colors of green, brown, tan, and gray. I, on the other hand, prefer bright and vibrant colors, so there were no correct colors in my closet. And so, we set out to enhance my attire to include the proper “shades of hunting”. Over a nine-month period, I only bought clothes in OD green or brown. Every time we entered a store, even if it was Walmart for groceries, if we passed the women’s clothing, my eyes only saw the colors of hunting. I think that I now have every hue and tint of green and brown imaginable adorning my wardrobe. To this day, I have to remind myself that the color wheel goes beyond brown and green.
Besides all the clothing, there was the “stuff” that we “needed”. New hiking boots, socks, gators, and let’s not forget the travel pillows. Ammunition, a lock box for the ammo to travel, lightweight flashlights/headlights, mosquito netting…the list goes on and on. We can’t overlook passports, other legal documents, traveler’s insurance, paperwork that was needed in order to take the gun and ammo on an airplane, not to mention to a foreign country, and of course, the currency exchange. South Africa’s currency is the Rand instead of the Dollar. At the time, the exchange rate was about 15 Rands to every one US dollar. We felt like millionaires leaving the bank with 22,500 Rands bulging from our pockets. Not only would this serve for any extra expenses we incurred, but also for the gratuities that Jim suggested we give to those who would work so hard to make our trip everything we dreamed it would be.
We also had to select a taxidermist here in the states to ensure that our trophies would eventually make it back home to us after all the preparatory work in Africa. It would take up to 6 months for the trophies to even arrive in the states*. Before they are shipped, they need to be dipped in chemicals that kill any little “hitchhikers” that wanted free ride overseas. We then needed to select a logistics company that would accept our trophies into customs and finally get them to our taxidermist to be tanned and mounted.
October finally rolled around, and it was time to buy our tickets for the flight. I had never bought tickets on the internet, so my anxiety was high. Whatever happened to leaving that up to the travel agent. She would hand you your paper ticket and you were all set. Now we can’t have a printed copy in our hands until 24 hours before the flight. I hoped fervently that I didn’t screw this one up. We had been watching for good pricing since Labor Day but it seemed the best we could do was $1500 a piece in coach. Aye! Aye! Aye! A 16 hour flight in coach. Lord, help us and our legs. That didn’t even include the 2-hour flight from Chicago to Atlanta. Tickets were bought. Flights and arrangements were made with Jim, Chivic, and Afton.
And so, the daydream was becoming a reality. We could hardly contain our anticipation.
* Footnote – At the time of this writing, COVID lockdown has delayed our shipment of animals almost 1 year to the day. They finally arrived in the states in March 2021. The tanneries are also about 1 year behind, so it will be a long wait for them to get to the taxidermist and then to our wall. Rumor has it, we won’t see them until 2022. By then, we will already have been back to Africa for another hunt.
BAILEY
One thing that we hadn’t figured on in the daydream was Bailey, our 16-year-old Chocolate Lab. We had had her since she was a puppy…a Valentines Day gift that I had surprised Dan with. She had been a good and faithful friend for so many years and was just part of the family…she was our “baby girl”!
Of recent, her body had just started to give out on her.
Some days, she was still playful as a new puppy and the next, she could hardly get up to go outside and struggled to even stay awake. Her bodily functions were failing. We knew in our hearts that she would not make it for almost 3 weeks boarded in a kennel. And with her health issues, it would be unfair to ask any family member to keep her. Certainly it would have been an awful state of affairs had she passed away while we were out of the country.
We loved her so much! With the help of our vet, we made the painful decision that all pet owners dread. So the day before we left for Africa, we made that final trip to the Mukwonago Animal Hospital. Our hearts were heavy knowing what was to come, but we thought that with the trip ahead of us, we would be distracted from the heartbreak. We were wrong! We still miss her to this day. Not that it wasn’t the right thing to do, but she had become so much a part of our life, there would still be that hole in our hearts upon our return.